Over the years, I have spoken to countless adults who were raised by divorced parents as children. I ask them what they wish their parents did differently and where their parents excelled in co-parenting.

Co-parenting this winter season? Many of us are, and it can evoke a range of emotions, including nostalgia, frustration, and gratitude. Here are some common sentiments that co-parents have shared with me, along with ideas to navigate them for maximized merriment.